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Multi-site student ministry has proved to be a challenge. Great to see you guys pushing forward in this area!
Rich
There is a local church in my area doing this with their college ministry. Some find it uncomfortable - others are growing like crazy. I guess the point is - no matter what you do it doesn't work for everyone, but when following the Spirit's leading you can't go wrong.
One major trend I've seen in student ministry over the past 3 years is the pursuit of the fruit of being the church, rather than the pursuit of the vine. Moving to home groups has huge potential to perpetuate this error - we can become more concerned about building 'good community' than building into Jesus' kingdom community, and experiencing the love/joy/unity/etc that naturally overflows from experiencing what Jesus is doing in and around us. There are countless way this plays itself out, but that is beyond the scope of a blog comment.
I think the major way the church can effectively impact the lives of students is as simple as time invested. If the only time students see you is at a program on Wednesday night (that's when we meet), it doesn't necessarily meet them where they are at. Asking students to come to our program (or even our home group) and meet us there only is like Jesus telling us to come to heaven so he can meet with us. That's not how Jesus operates, He came down and met us on our ground. In the same way, we have to enter students' world. We have to go to their high school football games. We have to watch their plays. We have to connect with them on myspace/facebook if that's the only place we can start! When they notice we really do care, they'll give us their respect and ear.
One concern I'd have with your model is separating the houses by grade. I think that's eliminating one of the largest resources in the church - the natural influence and learning from those older than you. If you have mixed classes together, you'll have this natural chain of discipleship where the seniors will want to be like your college leaders, your underclassmen will want to be like your upperclassmen, your freshmen will want to be like your sophomores... you get the idea.
One more note - students need to feel "ownership" of the house their in. I don't mean they get keys to the front door and the garage code, but they need to be able to feel comfortable, and definitely not be "walking on eggshells". If the homeowner can't accommodate that kind of mindset, it's time to find a new house.
I'll stop their... I'm getting into excitement mode where I could spew the ins-and-outs of this model for hours... Looking forward to hearing about it!
(Just so ya know, the relaxed and non-threatening atmosphere of a home is perfect for pre-saved teens. The model works great on all levels.)
I think the method you described is going to become more common. I started doing youth ministry in NC about 6 years ago and am now in WV doing student ministry. I have witnessed a HUGE need for real relationships. Most teens I have dealt with don't care too much about programs. They are interested in real relationships with people who love them. Age doesn't seem to be a factor with leaders, because I have seen students respond as well to college age leaders as they do to retired folks. They just want a place where they can be who they are, whether they know Christ or not.
Gen-Y wants the big bang, passion, and chance to unify for world change. It's easy for us Gen-X leaders to transpose what worked for us on the next generation and maybe that's why 69% of "the most spiritual generation in history" is walking away from what we're offering (Barna/Kinnaman). Praying for your launch and please keep us all posted!
We experimented with the exact same format this past year. It did not work very well for us. I will be interested to see how it goes for you guys. If you figure out how to do youth ministry well with multi-site, immediately write a book about it.
We met twice a month in these groups and twice a month in small groups.
The only other "felt" need I know of is to serve. Crazy as it sounds, I know more students that will come out to an event that "feels like they are giving their life away" than to Six Flags. They really want to get out of the "church chair" (or in this case, off the couch) and do something.
My guess is if you set it up right by strategically placing the magnet kids (the magnets with the athletes, gamers, girly girls, average kids, musicians, etc.), ramp up the veteran students, get your leaders at the curb and front door, shoot some hoops/throw a football/make something together in the kitchen beforehand, play your AMAZING video on a BIG screen, have Davey make the rotation to as many houses as possible and, of course, serve food ... you will be SHOCKINGLY successful.
Sorry for the long post, I'm genuinely excited for you and your kids.
http://www.christianitytoday.com/le/2008/003/7....
The method that you guys are trying out is great and has worked for us in the past. The non-threatening environment of a home vs. a church provides excellent opportunity for the Christ follower and the outsider to connect in a neutral environment.
It is great to see youth ministries who aren't afraid to try something other than what has been done before!